Bike ride

We did the Park to Port Bike Ride this morning, my mom and husband and brother and I. Originally, my brother was the support car, and he had a spare bicycle on the back that fit him, so that he and I could switch places whenever my body said I needed to be done. However, I really settled in okay after the first three miles, and ended up doing the whole first half without having to switch. When we had only three miles to go, I told my mom to have my brother go park at the turn-around party and ride back to meet us, so he could ride with the three of us for a bit. He ended up doing the last mile+ with us, and he and my husband clearly had a blast together for it.

After the turn-around party (aka real breakfast and chocolate milk and a short rest), I was still feeling very okay, and so we just left the car at the turn-around, and we all rode the whole way back together. The boys had a great time going wild off-course. My mom went at her own pace and occasionally stopped to let me catch up. And I just did what I could without pushing anything. I ended up riding the whole thing, which was 18 and a half miles all together.

To be clear, the last time I exercised was in May. I have only just been able to starting going on walks, and they are mostly just over half a mile each time, and they’re only every few days or more. I rode the bicycle for about seven minutes about two weeks ago, when we adjusted the seat height and angle so that my rolled hips could actually handle being on the bike. Basically, it speaks volumes as to how fit I was before the pregnancy, that I was able not only to do this ride today, but that I was able to do it pregnant.

What was funny to me was how people mostly had no idea I was pregnant. From behind, I don’t look anything other than a random slim girl. From the front and side, of course, I look like I have a basketball shoved under my shirt. Haha

That being said, the uphills were the only really hard parts for the ride. You see, I had a few things going against me on these. 1)My abs don’t really do any muscle work these days. They have just have spread apart and chill mostly. They don’t really flex. So, 2)I couldn’t ride standing up or use my core. 3)When pedaling on an uphill, my knees would slam into my belly, since it sticks out so much. So, I had to pedal the uphills with my knees splayed outward, as though I were on a little kid’s bike that was way too small for me. 4)My muscles are all smaller than they were in May. So, my thighs were not accustomed to working quite so hard all on their own. And 5)I weigh a lot more, percentage wise, than I ever have riding a bicycle. So, uphills were with splayed knees, only sitting, no ab support, heavier weight, and weaker muscles. Yes, they sucked.

So, I was moaning and groaning aloud for each of the uphills. And, unless the person turned to look at me while passing or afterward – they rarely did – the only thoughts people could have had were versions of, This girl sucks at riding a bike.

So, yeah, that happened loads. Haha. But the photographers noticed me quickly and were sure to get some photos of me and this baby. In ten years of this ride, we have never seen a pregnant woman doing the ride. I was definitely an anomaly for the event. But I held my own, and I am proud of it.

I am grateful to my family for being so supportive and so patient. I am grateful to my husband for making the bicycle actually fit the weird angle I needed. And I’m grateful to the midwife who had encouraged me to listen to my body and trust its messages, versus most common behaviors. (Most women don’t end up riding bicycles when pregnant, both because of the change in center of gravity and because of the effort.)

The only issue I had was that, though my hands always end up hurting by the end, because my handlebars have these weird 3-d design grips on them, today was the worst ever. My palms and my wrists were truly hurting before the end of the ride. I imagine that, since my seat had to be so far angled forward, to the point that I was half-leaning against it and half-sitting on it, that created much more pressure on my wrists and hands. Not to mention my heavier weight in the first place. So, what normally is only a touch painful by the end was like fire by about halfway. I did get paper towels to be a buffer against the handlebars at the halfway point, and that helped immensely with the grips situation and my palms. But that didn’t change the pressure on my wrists, and that really sucked by the end. Haha

But we made it! I’m sure my wrists will be sore tomorrow, as still will my lower palms (as they are now, raw-feeling and sore). And my groin area with have the same bruising it gets every year – yes, it was hurting already before we finished the ride, as always. And attending two Halloween parties tonight was not the greatest idea, given that my feet started hurting terribly and my tailbone’s sudden discomfort that turned into actual pain in a short period of time tonight made me cry before we left the second party. So, yeah… that sucked. Tailbone part still sucks. It hurts.

We’ll see how tomorrow goes.

God, thank you for today. Thank you for the fun and love and joy and ability of today. Thank you for my family and for bicycles. Make us well, please, and keep us safe. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Thursday

I accomplished more things today, and it gives great satisfaction. Woohoo!

Thank you, God, for the support. Make me and the baby and my husband well, please, and keep us safe. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Wednesday

What is the point of going to the actual bathroom to empty my massively full bladder, if, when I get there, the baby is straight up pressing on the line, and preventing that same massively full bladder from emptying? Hmm????????????

I had to move like crazy to get the baby to move off the spot that was clearly kinking the hose or whatever. It was weird. I had to pee so terribly, but I couldn’t get out more than tiny bits at a time at first. And it felt like a two by four was stuck under my belly, preventing me from leaning forward at all while attempting to pee… bizarre stuff, pregnancy.

Haha

P.S. The dentist really helped a lot today. There is still s tiny little piece that is not cool. However, all the other stuff seems like it may have been resolved in the visit today. I will see in the morning how my retainers do – I almost always say “aligners”, but they are technically retainers, because the teeth have already been aligned and just need to be retained, maintained in their corrected placements. But they already went on easier tonight than they have been doing. And flossing was a whole new world tonight. I almost cried with relief (instead of immense stress) while flossing tonight. Much, much better. Thank you, dentist.

Thank you, God, for the dental easing today. Thank you for the love and support of the day, as well as for my accomplishments and my energy to do those. Help make me and the baby and my husband well, please, and keep us all three safe. Help my family always to love one another truly. Be with us, guiding us all always, please. Heal our country. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Dentist

Going to the dentist tomorrow morning to have her fix these filings. They have been driving me nuts. It also is frustrating that the office never got back to me after I left a message, requesting an appointment for the problems I was already having with the new fillings. I just really hope they resolve the issues without creating any new ones tomorrow. I have such trouble with fillings, it always seems. I avoid them very well, but genetics just crush me sometimes, as in this case.

Anyway, here to hoping!

God, please, help my dentist visit tomorrow to clear up all concerns and problems I’m currently having with my teeth. Make me and the baby and my husband well, and keep us all safe, please. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Photos

Every week, the website that I used for my registry sends me an e-mail that talks about how far along I am that week. It gives info on various aspects of that week of pregnancy and common experiences and symptoms and how to deal with them all. And it also starts with a sentence saying how big the baby is and a photo of some seemingly random item that is the same size. And I feel like it might be targeted directly to me – perhaps I gave my date of birth at some point – but it could just be super targeted to millennials period. Every item has been something significant from my childhood. They’ve been awesome. And, of course, I’ve enjoyed using the actual items, which I own – yes, I own most of them – to take a photo each week. It has been a blast.

This week’s? See here:

So, naturally, I made sure we pulled out the matching VHS and got the relevant photo to mark the occasion/timing and development.

So, though it was stressful getting my husband to get the specific photo I wanted – as it has been each time – I was and am quite delighted at the resulting photos.

So, yay for successful dorky fun!

Thank you, God, for this edge of joy on what has been a difficult journey thus far for us. Thank you for my husband. Make me and the baby and my husband well, please, and keep us all safe. Help keep my whole family safe, please. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Exhausted

Today was a long and full day. But it was a good day, a wholesome day. I had to rest more than I wanted. But I also managed to stay the whole time and do all the things I had hoped to do in my volunteering for today. I was helpful and I accepted my limitations and just had to go sit outside for a bit and almost pass out in a nap. And I had to let people help take care of me… get me food, napkins… let me eat early… let me just sit and do nothing for a little while. But I also got to stand up for myself and tell three grown men that I was completely okay and safe helping pull something across the way, when they came running at me in a panic that I was doing any kind of physical labor. To be fair, it was an incredibly light wooden frame, and it didn’t even have the heavy thing sitting on top of it, so it truly wasn’t heavy. I had picked that one on purpose, because I knew I could move it without strain. Most of the others are much heavier. But I also had moved one of the others earlier, too, so I knew for sure that I could do this one. But they hadn’t seen me move the either earlier. Funnily enough, they had even kind of prohibited me from touching the bales that sit on top of these stands. So, that was a big part of why I had beelined first the one that had no bale on it – I knew I wouldn’t be going against their request this way, but still could fulfill the duty for which I had signed up.

Anyway, it all worked out pretty well today. And I even got to eat a reasonable amount of dinner shortly before heading home. That was good.

Down side for today was that I never pooped. Not cool for me. But it didn’t feel necessarily like that all day, so a small win on that front. Something sucky, but an improved version of it. Hopefully, tomorrow morning goes really well and easily on that front.

God, that you for today. Thank you for the love. Thank you for the courage and the energy. Help me and the baby to be well and safe, please, and keep my husband safe. Help the photos to go well tomorrow, please. And keep my parents safe, too, please. Help me to make these quilts. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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Rodeo

Rodeo has truly become a great place in my life. Being at an event today, I was blown away with how much everyone cared about me and about my baby. There was no concern about whether I was going to do an amazing job, or even be there the whole time. Their first priority was for me to be okay, and everything else was second. They would find coverage, they would figure it out, and I wouldn’t lose credit if I needed to step away or go home.

As the love was pouring in, I just kept thinking and experiencing, This is the right place to be.

Thank you, God. Amen.

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Getting closer

Just waiting on one final bit of approval from a lawyer to say I can sign this document, and I can send it back and never have to deal with these people again. The last two days have been really hard on me simply because of having to deal with them and their nonsense and ineptitude. Golly… what a mess! And it’s almost finished!

God, guide me the final bit for this, and help me always to follow you in life. Make me and the baby safe and well, please, and keep husband safe. Help us to sleep well at night. In your name, I pray. Amen.

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P.S. Well, if they pay me properly per the agreement, including my paycheck for time worked and the extra stipend they never actually paid me, though they should have done so already, I won’t have to deal with them again. So, we shall see! Fingers crossed and prayer said!