For me, when I am going to someone’s wedding, especially a family member’s, I check in ahead of time on any extra activities that they have where I am wanted or expected to attend, separate from the actual wedding and wedding day. Before I make other plans, I confirm what all of their plans are.
It seems that almost none of my family did this, and they have almost all made other plans, to the point that some of them likely won’t even be at the rehearsal or rehearsal dinner (This includes folks who are part of the actual wedding and need to be at the rehearsal.). And some of them basically ignored what I said about plans over the weekend, and made other plans. So, I only will get to see them at the actual reception, with everyone else, even though they’re coming in from all over the place and are never in the same place at the same time anymore, which makes me miss them loads usually.
And it just feels really sh***y, and makes me not at all look forward to seeing any of them.
I feel crushed and like no one is really even coming for my or my man’s sake but for themselves and their other plans.
I had expected my wedding to be awesome and exciting and a wonderful reunion with all our loved ones…
Post-a-day 2024
hannah ananas 