I have a solution(!).
– I don’t like your idea very much, so I won’t support it.
Thanks for ruining my solution, one person who could have helped me make it happen… not.
I got it that people have no idea why I go for the specific things I do – that I have a solid handful of reasons (if not more) for going at something the way I am…, but that doesn’t make it much easier when they totally ruin it, because they only know about one single reason, and so they misjudge the entire situation.