Just because it’s a good option doesn’t mean it’s the right option. There can be a multitude of good options available to us. But they aren’t all the best for each one of us. They are all different just as we are all different.
And, even if someone else may think this good option is the best option, it doesn’t mean that it really is the best option for me.
And, just because I can see that this one really is a really great option, it doesn’t mean that I have to pick this option. I am allowed to choose freely, of my own accord. When I know exactly what I want, I can wait for that, create that. I do not have to select or accept something else, simply because it is the best I’ve found so far, the closest I’ve found to what I actually want. Because it, ultimately, isn’t what I actually want.
Even if it is a really good option.
I don’t just want the best so far. I want the best.
If I’m going to put so much effort into something, I want it to be for the perfect option, the one I truly want, and never anything but that one.